Feel Good Alcohol-Free with Lindsay Hennekey
Hi, I'm Lindsay Hennekey, Sober Coach and Founder of Feel Good AF. This is a podcast for women who are sober or sober curious, looking for support in navigating a life without alcohol. I'm so glad you are here.
You may be thinking: What does an alcohol-free life look like for me? How do I live a life without drinking that doesnβt feel like I am missing something? How do I move beyond alcohol and into the elevated version of myself that I know is inside of me.
You are a hardworking, high-achieving, successful woman in so many areas of your life, who deserves to find a solution to the one big issue that has been holding you back. The solution exists and that's what this podcast is all about.
Each episode we'll cover one area of the Feel Good AF methodology - why moderation doesn't work, what to do when you have a slip, how to celebrate milestones, where you will find your alcohol-free community - and everything in between.
You'll be hearing a lot from me, but I'll also be bringing in a wide range of incredible women to share their stories, expertise, tips & advice, and so much more. Follow Feel Good Alcohol-Free wherever you get your podcasts, and subscribe to my YouTube channel for video episodes. Thanks for listening!
Lindsay is your sober coach, not a health professional. If you are chemically dependent on alcohol, consult your doctor on the steps you need to take to safely detox.
Feel Good Alcohol-Free with Lindsay Hennekey
Episode 72: Wine Is Not the Reward You Think It Is
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Have you ever found yourself saying, "I deserve this glass of wine" after a long day?
If wine has become the highlight of your evening, not because you love the taste, but because it feels like the only way to finally switch off, you're not alone. In this episode, Lindsay explores why so many high-achieving women mistake alcohol for self-care when it's actually keeping them stuck in a cycle of exhaustion, poor sleep, and broken promises to themselves.
Drawing from her own experience as a former high-functioning drinker, Lindsay explains why the nightly glass of wine can feel like a reward while quietly taking away your energy, clarity, confidence, and self-trust. She shares how to break free from the "I deserve it" mindset, rebuild healthier reward systems, and create evening routines that truly support the woman you want to become.
You'll discover:
- Why wine feels rewarding even when it's making your life harder
- The difference between relief and a true reward
- How alcohol trains your brain to associate drinking with relaxation
- Why your evening routine shapes how you feel the next day
- The hidden cycle of drinking for relief, waking up depleted, and craving relief again
- How alcohol affects your sleep, recovery, mood, and emotional resilience
- Why willpower isn't enough to change your drinking habits
- How to separate your real needs rest, comfort, connection, pleasure from the habit of drinking
- Why alcohol-free alternatives often feel "boring" at first and what that actually means
- How practicing new evening routines helps rebuild self-trust and lasting change
- A simple "Reward Reality Check" with five questions to help you rethink your nightly drink
- How creating rewards that truly give back can help you feel more energized, present, and aligned with the life you want
If you're tired of believing that wine is the only thing helping you unwind and you're ready to create evenings that leave you feeling genuinely restored, not just temporarily relieved. This episode will help you redefine what a real reward looks like and show you how to build a life you no longer need to escape from.
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And remember, Lindsay is a sober coach, not a health professional. If you are chemically dependent on alcohol (or think you might be), consult your doctor on the steps you need to take to safely detox.
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